Traditionally, when a couple is ready to take that next step into engagement, the man would head to the local jeweler to find his mate’s perfect ring.
Enjoy this exciting time; however, with so many options to choose from, how can he find a needle in a haystack?
Finding The Engagement Ring “Wow Factor.”
We have all seen the movies where a man kneels in front of the love of his life. He reaches into his pocket to reveal a tiny box, hidden within a stunning ring meant to elicit an ecstatic reaction.
No one ever talks about the awkward scenario where the ring isn’t up to par with a women’s expectations.
The real question becomes, are you prepared to accept a ring that you do not love?
The “wow factor” of being surprised may not be so “wow” if your partner chooses a ring that does not compliment you the way you want it to.
What can we do to prevent emotional turmoil over ring remorse?
Communication is key. I am sure you have heard that one before.
In the months leading up to an engagement, there should be a conversation about your expectations, dreams, and desires.
After all, this is one of the most significant milestones in your life and will be on your hand to display your love story.
Narrow Down Engagement Ring Options
Be honest with your partner.
If you want to be a part of the decision-making process, maybe you can go to the jeweler together.
This way, you can point out a few of your favorites.
This option allows your future husband to have a pretty good idea of what direction to go in.
Furthermore, this option is assuring because even though you won’t know the exact ring, you can comfort yourself knowing he will choose something you already pre-approved.
Make The Choice
In today’s society, anything goes, and recently it has become more common for the bride to choose her engagement ring.
There are no limits on how personalized you want your ring to be with many customizations and designs. You can opt-out of choosing a ready-made ring and design your engagement ring from the color to stone, metal, and shape.
My Engagement Ring Experience
My choice was to choose my ring because I wanted the comfort of knowing how my ring would fit and feel on my finger.
Did I make the right choice?
Honestly, there is a part of me that wishes I would have pointed out my favorite and let my husband make the ultimate decision.
I love my ring, and it makes me smile every time I look down and see it gleaming up at me.
As I mentioned earlier, movies and tv shows have painted a picture of that “Wow Factor” moment, and because of my choice, I didn’t get that moment.
The Question Remains
If you haven’t given this any thought, I encourage you to sit down and think about what you want.
After all, if you do it right, this will be one of the most marvelous moments of your life.
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Every Moment Counts,
Cynthia Boodhoo